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December does not surprise anybody. It shows up on the same date every year, with the same people, the same parties and the same aunt who expects a gift. And still, for a lot of us, January is the month we pay for December, one minimum payment at a time.
The fix is boring and it works: make the plan in October, while there are still a handful of paychecks between you and the holidays to spread it over.
Step 1: write the whole list
Every person you buy for, every party you will bring something to, every trip home, the outfit for the work party, the extra groceries for Nochebuena, the teacher gifts, the secret santa you did not sign up for but will absolutely do. Write all of it, even the small stuff. The small stuff is where the budget leaks.
Step 2: put a number next to every line
A real number, the one you will actually spend. Then add them up. That total is your holiday number, and it is usually higher than the number in your head. Better to meet it now than at the register.
If the total makes your stomach drop, trim the list before December trims your savings. Draw names with the cousins instead of buying for everyone. Set a cap with your siblings. Make one big family gift instead of ten small ones. Every one of those conversations is easier in October than on December 20.
Step 3: divide by your paychecks
Count the paychecks between today and your last shopping day. Divide your holiday number by that count. That is the amount that moves into a holiday sinking fund the day after each payday, automatically.
A sinking fund is a savings bucket with one job and an end date. Give it a name in your savings app (something like Navidad 2026) so you can watch it fill. When you shop, you spend from that bucket, and when the bucket is empty, the shopping is done.
Step 4: decide where it lives in the Traffic Light
In the Traffic Light from chapter 3 of my book, most holiday spending is green, joy money, and it should feel like joy. The travel home to see family can be a yellow you planned for. Family support you send every December, the remesa that grows at the end of the year, belongs in red because it is a commitment you made, and commitments get planned on purpose.
Step 5: give gifts that last past January
The best gifts I can think of help someone start something. A first savings deposit for a niece. A cookbook for the cousin who just moved out. A money date in a box for the friend who keeps saying she needs to get her finances together.
That last one is the Money Date Care Package, and yes, it is mine: a signed copy of my book, a stationery kit and the Money Starter Guide, hand packed and mailed from Miami, so the person you love gets a whole ritual to keep: https://mail.therichhermana.com/products/money-date-care-package
If you want the math done for you, the Mini FinGoals Tracker is free and the holiday fund fits right in as its own goal with a finish line: https://mail.therichhermana.com/products/mini-fingoals-tracker
One thing before Friday: write the whole list and get your holiday number. Then come share how many paychecks you have left in Hermana HQ, the free community where we keep each other honest through the season: https://mail.therichhermana.com/community
Con amor, Ixamar 🪴
This is education from my own experience, never personalized financial advice.